Online Dating Mistakes – How NOT to Respond to Her Message


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22 Responses to “Online Dating Mistakes – How NOT to Respond to Her Message”

  1. ncfwhitetigress on July 7th, 2010 at 0540

    This isn’t a question even worth contemplating.

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  3. honestygetsthegirl on July 7th, 2010 at 0635

    All I can say is cut and paste an email of yours that you’ve had with a girl where she’s stopped responding and email me with it.
    If I can’t give you specific help to fix the problem, then you can happily write off all my advice as a waste of time.
    I’m willing to bet that there’s probably one or two subtle things that wouldn’t take a massive effort to fix.
    But I need more information to go on. Understand if you don’t have this available, or don’t want to go through the hassle of getting it.

  4. I already know that expressing the want to meet in the first few e-mails screams nothing but stalker, so I keep any such notions to myself. I make it no secret if I disagree with someone (just ask all the self-proclaimed love gurus who talk to me).

    I carefully observe others who behave around women like I do, and so far I can only see one fundamental difference between what I do and what they do; they succeed and I fail. Why? Not even my marginally more successful friends can tell.

  5. honestygetsthegirl on July 7th, 2010 at 0705

    Hmm, this is a tricky one, without being able to see the emails. All I can say is there is one common denominator here. If you consistently get on well with chicks far away, but not close by, it figures that maybe there is a subtle difference in your communication. Are you too eager to meet perhaps, or find commonalities? Maybe you lameting them for being far away helps you be more appealing (it shows you’re not some pushover who will agree with every word they say). Who knows…

  6. That’s the thing though; I’m not doing anything wrong at all. On occassion, I’ll get hit up by some chick who lives ridiculously far from me, and aside from writing the lamentation of how far away they are, I don’t talk to them any differently than I do someone closer to home. Somehow I’m able to establish long-lasting friendships with these far-away women, while the women close by fear me like the plague. Why does it work for the one, but not the other?

  7. honestygetsthegirl on July 7th, 2010 at 0829

    I don’t envy your situation, because I’ve been there. There’s all kinds of conflicting advice that’s confusing. Fact is, it’s probably not the speed of reply that caused her to stop messaging you. The only way I could figure it out, is if you were to cut and paste the whole set of emails from that interaction, then I could tell where it went wrong. Feel free to email me on here if you want, and I’ll try and help you out.

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  10. freakandfrak on July 7th, 2010 at 1001

    Internet dating is for losers.

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  13. “if she is interested and you don’t feel that way then you write back quickly….”
    If she’s interested and you don’t feel what way?

    In most cases she wrote me back just as quickly as I wrote her back, so how can she condemn me for doing the exact same thing as her?

  14. chaminda123 on July 7th, 2010 at 1153

    M8 there needs to be a balance….however if she is interested and you don’t feel that way then you write back quickly….

    If she likes/may like you then you reply not too early not too late…

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  16. You say to write her back right away because doing that shows interest, while too many other people say you should NOT write her back right away so you don’t appear desperate. Which method is more right? I was e-mailing with a girl pretty frequently, and she (like all the others) lost interest very quickly.

    “Your buddies aren’t dating her.”
    No, but statistically, your buddies are the ones who are getting more action than you, so they SEEM to know what they’re talking about. :S

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  19. TheMathGuy on July 7th, 2010 at 1350

    Indeed! How true. I think men and women are more alike than we are different. I’m not looking for a partner who will play silly games with me like people did in high school. I want someone who will be REAL, and if she thinks I’m desperate for replying back right away, then maybe she’s not the one for me and I should move on.

  20. DanAndJenn on July 7th, 2010 at 1354

    Thanks for the note micromega11!

    Have an awesome day!
    Dan & Jennifer

  21. micromega11 on July 7th, 2010 at 1405

    Ur right!

  22. sk8freedum on July 7th, 2010 at 1444

    heres a little tip on how u should reply to her if she immediately replies back to u…”wow” i just sent u a message an hour ago and u already replied back…do u stay online 24/7 waiting for my response ?? alright, gotta go, got something else better to do !! haha”

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