Dating Advice : Flirting Tips for Shy Girls


A quiet girl can be flirtatious in a quiet and sedate way that is better suited to her personality. Learn how to retain a sense of self while taking some risks with tips from a psychologist in this free video on relationships and dating advice. Expert: Reka Morvay Contact: www.rekamorvay.com Bio: Reka Morvay is a psychologist and doula with degrees from University of California, Berkeley and Cornell University. She also trained with the Hungarian Association of Cognitive and Behavior Therapy. Filmmaker: Paul Volniansky

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25 Responses to “Dating Advice : Flirting Tips for Shy Girls”

  1. xNeonFreakx on July 14th, 2010 at 1211

    @UTF5658
    Hey, I saw your profile picture and I can tell you are VERY pretty. No lie! Im totally being serious here if you weren’t very pretty at all I would tell you but your not. Just believe in yourself and feel confident.

  2. xNeonFreakx on July 14th, 2010 at 1305

    :) Thx bunches for this vid

  3. smileyblackpannther on July 14th, 2010 at 1306

    i used to be bullied alot and didnt really get many friends until closer to 10th and 11th grade of highschool. I maybe dated twice [?] but i dunno im really shy and im the person that you wouldnt notice in your class. Im the person who never talks if im not with my group of friends.. The friends i have are uber outgoing and all guys. Everone says im cute and pretty… if its true, why am i usually ignored?

  4. puppyxdogxwoof on July 14th, 2010 at 1316

    i like shy pplz o.o

  5. joyoyo12345 on July 14th, 2010 at 1353

    Im shy, but i try to break out of my shell often:D

  6. i like this video and i find it useful. 2 b yourself. . .

  7. ya im shy ._.

  8. Utf5658
    That is sooo true
    People tell me I’m hot/pretty all the time and when i look in the mirror I’m like hmmm
    I’ve been shy all my life, and people see that as “weird”, thus finding something to b mean to me about because they don’t understand me. Very very cruel things have been said to me during grade school, not so much in college, and it has really affected my personality ;(

  9. Shy girls are awesome.

  10. bluelover404 on July 14th, 2010 at 1727

    weeeeeeeeeeee im shy.

  11. im actually very shy and you wont believe how much i hate it! i want to be flirty and talkative, but all through elementary and middle school, ppl made me feel very ugly . ppl say that i turned very pretty when i got a lil older and i cant believe those comments because i dont see how it could be true. when i talk to ppl i feel like im bothering them with my ugliness and annoyance, but ppl tell me its all just really in my head. it sux being shy because ur constantly ovr thinking about evrything

  12. @ClaudiaTiella Ive been shy all my life but for me my shyness at first was geared to thinking people didn’t like me or that whenever I talked I would be judged. But if people judge you who cares they are only just bored with their own lives, the way I see it is to never insult someone for the way they act because as long as their happy then they have a good life. My suggestion is to get a job such as retail or anything with customer relations & it will improve your confidence, it worked for me

  13. @cheerleadersarenoobs “What do you think?” LOL I think guys are always avoiding questions too! I would ask him something & he’d be like “What do you think?” haha just play the game like he does(:

  14. whyisthereyou on July 14th, 2010 at 1937

    ok im like very shyy and i cant be myself until i get use to them and all IM NOT UGLY but im not hot or watever eitherr..and i was just wondering like do all guys just care about looks….. but yea im not ugly or hot its like cute u know but yea is that all guys care about?

  15. TheHorsefreakforever on July 14th, 2010 at 2017

    @LoveSenseDimension
    does he like u back?

  16. PopPrincess714 on July 14th, 2010 at 2037

    @JemmStudioGirls dam i think u should go or wht i do best….is bump into him and say sorry, and then start a conversation lol

  17. @broadcast185 Oh, ditto sister, and other cocky guys make fun of them and make asses of themselves.

  18. RedmanPrime23 on July 14th, 2010 at 2157

    Type in —-> Why can’t girls find a real man!!!!

  19. ClaudiaTiella on July 14th, 2010 at 2226

    @LoveSenseDimension I would love to do that too. But the problem is that I’m to shy to look someone in the eyes. I can’t even look my friends in the eyes… =S Any tips how to become more confident?

  20. broadcast185 on July 14th, 2010 at 2243

    i think a shy guy is really sexy

  21. umm you should take a chance and go for it it’s 90 precent chance for tht he likes it. btw i’m a boy

  22. ASK him if you can sit next to him :)
    you migt even get a conversation going!
    If you’re not comfertable with that, I have another tip.
    When your eyes meet again, try to just
    SMILE.
    It really really really works! trust me! please try!

  23. DarkDaniAngel on July 15th, 2010 at 0010

    Well I think you should still try to talk to him. That actually happened to me too. I liked this guy that I was too nervous to talk to for 2 years. One day, I finally got up the courage to talk to him. Then, one of my friends asked me if I liked anyone and my crush was watching/listening. I got nervous because I noticed that, and said ‘No’. He looked at me when I said that, and after that walked off. Today we’re really close and he’s forgotten about it. So I think you shouldn’t worry so much.

  24. JemmStudioGirls on July 15th, 2010 at 0040

    da only thing is that my friends are like do u like him ( B** ) And i said “No” and now he thinks im not intested what should i do now?!

  25. ThinkinChill1995 on July 15th, 2010 at 0105

    you should sit next to him.and if your really that shy then sit near to him,and wait for the perfect timing to talk. to him. like if he’s listening to his ipod and you like the band then talk about it.If it’s a crappy bus then say damn this bus is really crappy huh? and it will surely start a great conversation. Good luck! :)

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